Become Unshoppable — Align Your Spending With Your Intentions
Financial Behavior Coaching

Become
Unshoppable

You don't have a budgeting problem.
You have an unmet need problem.
And that is not your fault.

Find Your Spending Type →

Free quiz — takes 5 minutes

You don't have a
budgeting problem.

You've tried the budgets. All of them. You've probably tried more than one — the spreadsheet, the app, the envelope method. None of it fixed your spending. And the personal finance industry will never tell you why.

Because they're solving the wrong problem. A budget tells you where your money should go. It doesn't tell you why you can't stop spending. That's a different problem entirely.

Overspending is not a budgeting problem.
It's an unmet need problem.

Every purchase is trying to meet a need. When you figure out what that need actually is, your desire to spend changes. Not because you white-knuckled your way through it. Because the need is finally getting met a different way.

That is not your fault. And it is something you can work on.

Start with The Spending Types Quiz — free, five minutes, and the first real answer to why your spending keeps happening.

Mary Ann Stenquist
Mary Ann Stenquist Spending Coach

She's been exactly where you are.

I struggled with overspending for years. Tried every budget, every finance book, every fresh start — none of it fixed the spending because none of it asked why.

When I started asking why, my desire changed overnight and my spending followed. Budgeting is a planning tool. Spending is a behavioral and emotional event. They are not the same problem.

That is not your fault. And it is something you can work on.

Everything you need to
stop the cycle

From free starting points to deep-dive coaching — choose the path that fits where you are right now.

Free
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The Spending Types Quiz

Discover the exact spending pattern keeping you stuck. In under 5 minutes, learn your spending type and what's actually driving your overspending behavior.

Low-Cost · Live
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Overspending Workshop

The most affordable way to start changing your spending — right now. This focused workshop walks you through the key mindset shifts and practical strategies to recognize your triggers, interrupt impulse spending, and apply real tools you can use the same day. No fluff, no overwhelm. Just actionable steps to start closing the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

Ongoing Support
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1:1 Personalized Coaching

Get unstuck and stay unstuck with weekly coaching, customized roadmaps, and follow-ups to ensure your success in becoming unshoppable.

Self-Paced
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Become Unshoppable Course

The complete self-paced program for rewriting your relationship with spending — from identifying triggers to building lasting financial habits that actually hold.

"My shopping has gone way down. I am now reasoning in my head and not buying things or getting caught up in certain clothing pieces that I really want."

Spending Solutions Session client

"This was the first time I have opened up to anyone about my spending."

Post-session client

"She gets it. No judgment."

Post-session client

Start Here — It's Free

What's your Spending Type?

There are 6 spending types — and yours explains more about your behavior than any budget ever has. Take 5 minutes. Find out which one is driving your spending. That's where real change starts.

Take the Free Quiz →